4.Rejecting a groom based on height/weight by stipulating range of height / weight .
5.Stipulating conditions for the partner's profession such as Doctor / Accounts Professional /I.T. Guy .Recently a girl Axxxxx Sxxxxxx declined a groom saying she was a fashion designer by profession and so she would marry someone based in the U.S. or Europe only not Gulf or India.
6.In matrimony sites such as bharat matrimony,shaadi.com there is a provision for the prospective boy / girl to chat.Ironically the girls never reply to any messages posted on the chat window.Some of them dont even to bother to reciprocate even the hello /hi typed in the chat window leave alone chat.Very good lessons in courteous communication.No boy or girl can force the other to marry him or her thru a chat window.I just cant fathom why some so called well educated girls are so uncourteous in chat sessions.I think this is what their western education has taught them.
7.Rejecting a groom/bride based on meaningless tamil astro proverbs which have no scientific statistical basis whatsoever .Some of the proverbs used as a Bride/Groom declination tool are
Aann Moolam ArasaLum , PeNN moolam Nirmoolam
Kettai Jyeshtanukku agathu
Magham Jagam ALum
The Jathagap Porutham is an indicator for the well being of the would be couple.But It is used as a potent weapon by some parents to evade some brides/grooms.
Neither all Jathagam Porunthiya Kalyanams succeed , Nor all Love marriages fail ( There are exceptions to both ) . It is ultimately a mix of Jathaga porutham and Manap Parutham which would result in a sustained divorceless Blissful married life.
The actual reason for rejection may be something else ( such as Education/salary/height / weight / geographical location preference etc.) but it is falsely attributed to Jathaga porutham
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